Friday, October 23, 2015

Still didn't facebook it

I almost posted this Tuesday and then I didn't because sometimes I feel my FB posts sound like I'm bragging. I'm not. So if you read my posts and poo poo me then just unfriend me- no hard feelings. I'm longwinded and thoughtful and I like to throw it out to the world hoping it lands on 'friends' ears. I do know that I am incredibly blessed to work in a profession that is my heartbeat, my ministry, and my passion. We connect with great people- adults and students- everyday. I get to recommend books to them, I get to help them along their way and they help me along mine. I laugh every day at WORK. Everyday. I smile. I am reaffirmed that I am in the right place at the right time. It's rough and discouraging at times, it is, but I am incredibly blessed to live out this life here doing this job with these wonderful people.
So anywho.... Tuesday one of my seniors came in after my announcements and said, I need you. We walked over to the library and she launched into the- I don't know what I should do with my life, how can you expect me to choose what I want to do for the rest of my life, this is too stressful, tell me what to do. Of course I didn't tell her. We talked. I helped her see some options and coping strategies. Mr. Lovin walked in. We went through it all again. Another parent came in. We tried it out on him. I told her to talk to people. See what they say. Consult people in that field and ask how this works in their world. Then she said, OK I'm going to see Mrs. Eriksson. I know you two will be honest with me because you care about me......
Job done. I had to stop myself from tackling her and crying because job done.
I know I could insert many of my coworkers names into a story where a kid connects with a teacher who they know cares. That, my friend, is why I love being a Blanchester Wildcat. It doesn't happen everywhere. Not every school has the support from bosses who care as much about the whole student as the curriculum. One does not thrive without the other.

Wednesday, October 21, 2015

Safe Place

I'm plotting my NANOWRIMO novel... I think I'll just write everyday, some memoir, some sentence collection from my blog and journals. 15 mins a day just writing.

Guard what you say. You never know who is listening, who they are related to, and who they will repeat it to. You are creating a picture of yourself to those who overhear you.

Provide a safe place... I told Bub this awhile back when he had friends over and now I realize I need to do the same thing for teachers and for students.

So someone has me over a barrel so they treat me like crap. I can't really do much about it so I smile and move on. However I told a colleague and friend the situation and she was outraged. It made me feel so much better. I'm not just being sensitive. Now the person treating me like this can not be confronted so she probably thinks she's getting away with it but what she does not realize is that she did not completely steal my power. People know. They also realize you are the person who knows I can't fight back so you abuse me. So there's that.

Went to Books by the Banks this past weekend. I love being close to the authors. But I feel like if I poured my soul into writing a book, you came up to my table and then walked away I would follow you screaming, " what?!? you don't like it?!?! What don't you like?!?!" 

Sunday, October 4, 2015

Time flies when I get nothing done...

Listened to a Chip Kidd Ted Talk on clarity and mystery...
Watched 2 episodes of NCIS...

Working in planner and cleaning off studio table...
Burning Flannel & Tweed...
Drinking tea...
Eating leftovers from Homecoming dance...
Cleaning up scrapbooking...
Cleaning off the desk

The boy slept over at a friend's after homecoming. I finally called to tell him he needed to return to me. Then I cooked him a small snack of 7 scrambled eggs. Then Hubs came home from a fishing tournament at Rocky.

FOOOORRRRRR HHHOOOOUUUURRRSSSSS

whoopsie, float building, life

How embarrassing that I've been so lazy and depressed and then I read about Syria. Seriously blessed over here in the US of A and dragging our feet.

Depressed? I guess more like discouraged. Stupid Facebook. People accusing the school of making bank off of students. Seriously? It makes me want to clock in clock out and see how many volunteers you get then. Please just stop people. Not nice. If you have a question ask the right people not Facebook. Negative Nancys are all going to say amen and those of us who know the answers aren't allowed to engage school questions like that on Facebook. Poopy people.

And then there is float building... a great American tradition. Where the parents need to learn to let the kids do something on their own.... Painful to watch but a necessary right of passage.

We tell our kids to behave online and then the parents are the ones out there blasting each other, making accusations instead of having a question and going to the appropriate person to get answers.
I wonder why we can't get volunteers....

This post started days ago but I just keep holding off on posting so LAST DAY!
I put out new bookmarks on Monday and today I noticed they are all gone.. what a rewarding feeling. They weren't even up front; because they were so large I put them in the back of the basket and today I went to get one and they were all gone. Little lovelies found them and helped themselves just as I had intended.